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The Phenomena That Is Making You Play Small In Business (Ep 40)

• Rachel Smith

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The real reason why you are stuck in business right now and a personal story from my own perspective about how this occurred in my life.  

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welcome to the money mindset and miracles podcast, helping you to grow a predictable and scalable months of income from your business as gracefully as possible. I'm Rachel Smith business, coach mindset, expert I'm going to talk today about something that I see all the time, whenever I'm working with my clients. When I'm talking to the female entrepreneurs. And certainly something that, um, I experience, I haven't resolved this, but it's so big. That it's. Probably playing out in your business in some way. And it is probably contributing to the gap, the gap of way white. Right where you want to be. And it's probably contributing to the reason why that gap can't be closed. Or why it feels really hard for you to close that gap and actually get to the point where you want to be with your business and your life. So, what am I talking about? Because it sounds really massive. And it's this idea that as women, we've got old stories that are running in our unconscious mind that are all about being a good girl. That's all about not asking and certainly not receiving what we want. And what we believe in NLP is that the way that you think the way that you are programmed. Comes from the generational stories that have been handed down to you through your family. We only have to go a little bit down the line. To see how small women have been kept and how we are in this new era. Where after thousands and thousands Yes. have been suppressed. Many women in the Western world. Are actually getting into this new arena where we are. Able to do more things we can. Grow amazing businesses yet. It feels really difficult for many, many women to achieve that. And it comes down to this. It comes down to the. Precondition that you have about whether or not you can have what you want. And sometimes it shows up in thinking small, like, oh, I only want one or two more clients. Uh, or I only want to generate another thousand pounds of, I have to wear it until this child's gone to school or that child's finished skill. I have to wear it. For those things to happen before I can do. What I want and where this comes from is the condition that we have from a really early age. And I'm going to talk about my experience because that's what I'm an expert in. And let's see if it resonates with you. But as a child, I was actively. Encouraged to be quiet. Being a good girl and, you know, working hard and getting good results and doing, as you've been told as well. And this conditioning. I experienced, maybe you experienced something similar. It is the thing that's imprinted within us now. As fully fleshed women is that we still have that programming within us. We still have the belief that you are a good girl. You stick to the rules. You do as you've been asked and you keep small Often that old programming is holding you back. The first time I realized that this was a massive problem for me. Is when I heard. This quote. From. Marianne Williamson. In her book, a return to love, and she writes about this and I absolutely love it. So let me just read out. This quote, and you might be familiar with it, but I think it's always worth going back and listening again. And the qualities, our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light and not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented. And fabulous, actually. Who are you not? You're playing small does not serve the world. There was nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people don't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. I love the fact that she has encapsulated in her words. Exactly how so many women feel. In our hearts, we know that we are. Experts at what we do. We know that we are brilliant at what we do, but we are very uncomfortable with earning that. And this is where the inner work comes from. So this is resonating with you. If you're like, oh my gosh, I am playing it small. And my business, because I feel like I have to be the good girl. I have to be the quiet child. I'm not allowed to put my hand up. I'm not allowed to tell her the people, what I've got or how amazed I am or how talented I am or how I can help them. If that is. Resonating with you. It's brilliant. This is the first step. This is like recognizing that this is an old story that needs to be let go of. This is old programming. That needs to shift and change the, that you can step into that light that Marianne Williamson talks about so that you can truly shine in that most brilliant, authentic. Amazing wear feminine way even. And there's a real feminine way of actually stepping into that. And shining your light so that you inspire other people around you as well. You know, whoever that might be, it might be lift ones. It might be a clients. It could be a students, whatever. That is for you. So, if that is you, first step is recognizing that, Hey, you know, There's a reason why you're not stepping into that light. There's a reason why your finding yourself. Stuck in a place. And there's a reason why. You are playing small in your business and it's down to conditioning and it's about changing that story. And that is the work that needs to be done. So you might be left with like, well, that's great, Rachel, but how do I get that work done? There are so many different ways that you can do that. You can work with an NLP practitioner like myself. You could, do hypnotherapy. You could do some EFT. But this is deep work. You know, this is the work. Where it's imprinted. In your unconscious. Obviously I have a results for you. I'm not just going to leave you hanging. Um, I am running a brand new masterclass in June, so I'm recording this in June, 2023. The musculus is going to be a Monday, the 19th. And within that, I'm going to be sharing a number of things and one of them. Is about helping you to start to shift through any blocks and the limiting beliefs that may be holding you back. Masterclass is all about creating your personal roadmap to generating consistent months of five care. And we're going to be talking about specifically. What you need to do as an individual to bridge that gap of like where you are right now to generating consistent ones of 5k as easily and gracefully as possible. The mindset piece is the cherry of the cake. And for everybody who signs up, you've also got the opportunity to actually jump on a free call with me. After the masterclass, like the following dares. Um, Well, we're work of an individual action plan. So, if that sounds like a bit of you, if you're like, oh my God, I am ready to let go of the old programming. I'm ready to start to dream a little bit bigger. I'm really stepping into this ability to scale a business to consistently as a five care sign up for this masterclass is going to be absolutely amazing. Attend live when you can to do that deep transformational work. And if you can't. Uh, for whatever reason. The Turner resources here on the podcast where you can actually go and start to do some of that. At deep work as well. So just, um, have a run through the podcast has a number of mindset exercises. So I leave all of the details to this Musk class, biller. It's going to be amazing angles to really break down exactly how you can start to put your business together so that you know how to take action. Uh, basically what action you need to take. Um, give you the mindset tools that's going to help you create those 5k moons. I mean, who's excited about that. I forget. Um, okay. I'll leave all the details down in the show notes as always. If you've got anything that you want to ask or common 10. Comment on even, uh, just leave the details. Biller. I will respond to everybody's comments. I must really appreciate you listening to this. And I look forward to connecting with you again soon. Bye. For now.